Two years of war, multiple displacements, and the deaths of her husband and father have reduced Lamis Dib’s life in Gaza to a relentless fight for survival.

“It’s indescribable,” the 31-year-old mother of two said of the war that continues to devastate the Palestinian territory.

“Friday, October 6, 2023, the last day before the war, was a beautiful day,” she recalled.

Her oldest daughter, Suwar, five at the time, had just started kindergarten, and Dib would watch her come home every afternoon from the window of their apartment in Sheikh Radwan, a middle-class neighbourhood in the north of Gaza City.

Her son Amin, then three, “was taking up all of my time”, said Dib, who would often bring him to the nearby seaside.

Dib had studied to become a social worker, but could not find a job in Gaza’s impoverished pre-war economy, partly stunted by a strict Israeli blockade since 2007.

But she had built “a happy family” with her husband, an accountant who ensured that she “never lacked anything”.

Their neighbourhood was one of the first to be hit by Israeli strikes in October 2023.

Israel’s military campaign has since killed at least 66,225 Palestinians in Gaza, also mostly civilians, according to figures from the health ministry, which the United Nations considers reliable.

The destruction in Gaza is vast, with entire neighbourhoods flattened and millions of tonnes of rubble now covering areas where families once lived.

Buildings, hospitals, schools, water and sanitation systems have borne the brunt of Israeli attacks, and the humanitarian consequences for the territory’s more than two million people have been severe.

Hundreds of thousands of homeless Gazans have crowded into shelters, makeshift camps and open areas, lacking even basic protections.

‘Race against death’

When Dib’s area was struck, she and her family fled to a nearby district —the first of a series of displacements — before leaving northern Gaza for the city of Khan Yunis in the south.

“One of the most difficult days of our lives,” Dib said, describing their long expedition along torn-up roads and through military checkpoints.

She and her children have been displaced 11 times as fighting between Israel and Hamas rages.

“Each move was a race against death, under airstrikes. It was as if I was on autopilot, I carried my kids, held them against me, and ran without looking back, without knowing where we were going,” she said.

When the family relocated to the southern city of Rafah for a time, shortages and overcrowding were the norm.

“For six months, in Rafah, 30 of us would sleep in a single room with no toilets. It was hard to express what we felt: confinement, nonstop air strikes, hunger, thirst, lack of hygiene and a total absence of privacy,” she said.

In August 2024, the family was living in the central Gaza refugee camp of Nuseirat when Dib’s life changed again.

“On a Friday at 6pm, my husband and my father were on the rooftop with five young people from the family, when we heard the sound of a missile and saw smoke,” she said.

“I ran towards the rooftop, and the scene was unimaginable; they were all dead.

“My husband’s body seemed intact, I thought he was alive. I tried to wake him up, but he had been struck in the head. And then I found my father’s body […] his hand had been blown off.”

‘A little bit of peace’

From that day on, Dib had to care for her children alone, just when life in Gaza was at its hardest.

She moved into a tent in Al-Zawayda, a camp where thousands of Palestinians share the same harsh daily life, living under tarps that flap in the wind, bake under the summer heat and leak during the winter rains.

“Everything is difficult,” she said from inside her shelter.

While her friends can appeal to their fathers or husbands for help, Dib must weather the unending financial difficulties by herself.

In May 2025, Israel eased a total blockade on supplies that it imposed in March, but the humanitarian aid trickling in since then has not been enough, the UN says.

“Our children were robbed of education, food, and a normal life,” she said as Suwar and Amin studied on her knees.

Sometimes, they look at photos of their father and relatives killed during the war on Dib’s phone.

“We’ll return to our home,” she said. “We will rebuild it, but we just want a little bit of peace.”

Like their mother, Suwar and Amin are mostly preoccupied with survival, tasked with filling up the family’s jerrycans at a temporary water station near the tent.

For them, the war’s consequences may outlast the airstrikes.

The UN’s agency for children, Unicef, estimated in 2024 that every child in Gaza was in need of psychological support.

COPENHAGEN: Ukraine’s President Volodymyr Zelensky has warned European leaders that Russia is preparing to step up the war. 

Speaking at a summit of European leaders from just under 50 countries in Copenhagen on Thursday, he pointed to recent drone flights over Denmark and other countries as a sign that Moscow is looking to escalate the conflict beyond Ukraine’s borders. 

He urged Europe to take the threat seriously and said Ukraine is ready to share its battlefield experience to help partners defend themselves.

The warning came at a summit of European leaders from just under 50 countries, who converged on a conference centre in Copenhagen under tight security after mystery drone flights rattled Denmark last month.

The drone sightings in Denmark and high-profile aerial incursions by Moscow in Estonia and Poland have heightened fears that Russia’s assault on Ukraine could spill over Europe’s borders.

“The recent drone incidents across Europe are a clear sign that Russia still feels bold enough to escalate this war,” Zelensky said.

“It was never just about Ukraine, Russia has always aimed to break the West and Europe.”

Russian President Vladimir Putin waived the accusations, but said Russia was “closely monitoring the rising militarisation of Europe”, adding that Moscow’s response will be timely and “significant”.

Putin accused Europe of stoking “hysteria” to excuse rising military spending, and said Russia did not pose a threat.

“Just calm down,” he said.

European leaders are keen to work with Ukraine’s war-tested expertise as they seek to bolster their own defences, and are discussing plans for a “drone wall” to counter the menace from Moscow.

“If the Russians dare to launch drones against Poland, or violate the airspace of northern European countries, it means this can happen anywhere,” Zelensky said.

“We are ready to share this experience with our partners.”

French President Emmanuel Macron said Western countries should be willing to take a tougher line when confronted by Russian drones, to sow doubt in the Kremlin.

“It’s very important to have a clear message. Drones which would violate our territories are just taking a big risk. They can be destroyed, full stop,” Macron said.

Romanian Prime Minister Nicosur Dan, whose country has seen Russian drones crossing over from Ukraine, warned that his forces would shoot down the next one to violate their airspace.

‘Kill’ Russia’s ‘shadow fleet’

As Russia’s full-scale war on Ukraine drags on through a fourth year, Europe is scrambling to keep up pressure on Moscow and secure funding for Kyiv.

Macron said it was key to step up efforts to counter the so-called shadow fleet of ageing oil tankers to “kill” the business model Russia uses to circumvent restrictions on exporting its oil.

“It is extremely important to increase the pressure on this shadow fleet, because it will clearly reduce the capacity to finance this war effort,” said Macron — pointing at France’s move this week to hold a blacklisted tanker linked to Russia.

In a bid to ensure Ukraine has the financing it needs, the European Union is exploring a proposal to use frozen Russian assets to fund a new 140-billion-euro ($165-billion) loan.

Proponents say the move is needed to help Ukraine plug budget shortfalls — and that Russia, not European taxpayers, should ultimately foot the bill.

But Belgium, where the vast majority of frozen assets are held, has deep reservations over the plan, which some leaders fear could spook other investors or draw Russian retaliation.

“We’re going to move to uncharted waters. This is very, very risky,” Belgian Prime Minister Bart De Wever said.

He insisted he wanted clear commitments from all EU leaders that they would share the potential liability with Belgium to shield it from any Russian retribution.

EU chief Ursula von der Leyen said Wednesday it was clear that risk should not fall only on Belgium’s shoulders and that she would “intensify” talks on the proposal.